Tips for building a healthy relationship

In this world, everyone needs a true love and everyone is looking at the human relationship with the different angle. Generally, it is very important to maintain and to improve the human relationship but unfortunately, too many marriages and relationships breaking down which is really tragic and not a good thing. There are relationships that [...]

In this world, everyone needs a true love and everyone is looking at the human relationship with the different angle. Generally, it is very important to maintain and to improve the human relationship but unfortunately, too many marriages and relationships breaking down which is really tragic and not a good thing. There are relationships that cannot be saved because they are not based on the good human relationship. If there is any other or option or tool available to save relation then divorce rate can go down, there is no fighting between partners. You know one thing, there is a higher ratio of break down in second marriage in comparison to first one. This is because, a person always looks for the first love and that gives him/her all the happiness to remember in the world. But we can stop fighting, and avoid divorce because we have a very good tool and that tool is called trust. If you are thinking that your relationship is going to be break up, they should take some important steps to improve their human relationship.

In such condition of a relationship, one should follow these instructions:

-          Avoid Fighting: First of all you have to stop yelling each other, it is very important to stay positive and to listen whatever partner says and to reply politely in the affirmative manner. Even though, you fill that the partner is wrong, just acknowledge. This way, partner will start realizing the mistake in a day or two.

-          Show your love: Even though you fill that you are not treated with the grace and you have started to hate the partner, start saying ‘I love you dear’ because your partner will calm down or you can hug your partner and showing your love. This will surely give some shock to a partner and will start responding in other affirmative manner in short time.

-          Even though, it is hard to maintain a broken human relationship but one needs to put some hard work and not just work to improve the human relationship. After all, a person is your partner who has left everything only for you.

-          Have a set of goals or personal goals that you both agree to work toward. When you are working toward each other’s goals or the one common goal, you MUST and I say MUST be supportive and HELPFUL in whatever way you can. There are 2 sides to this equation – sometimes people have to work on their own, but have a partner, and sometimes the partners have to work together, it really depends on you.

-          Be understanding in nature: It’s not hard to sit down and discuss things and work toward a common ground. It is very easy to LISTEN AND UNDERSTAND instead of fighting with each other. The best thing a person can do is listen if someone has a complaint and always work toward a common interest.

I would request you to please stop fighting and live happily with your partner. Cheers!!!